Wednesday, August 6, 2014
Nice People Vs. Good People
Some want to be a nice person.
Others focus on being a good person.
What's the difference?
Let's think on this...
Nice people will tell you what you want to hear.
Good people will tell you what you need to hear.
Nice people will smile to your face, but talk negatively about you behind your back.
Good people will say the same thing whether you are in the room or not.
Nice people avoid confrontation if at all possible.
Good people will lovingly work through problems with people to reach solutions.
Nice people will compromise their convictions to keep you comfortable and happy.
Good people maintain their values to do what is best for you.
Nice people can manipulate you.
Good people can bless you.
Nice people are those you will somewhat like for a season.
Good people are those you will forever respect and trust.
Yes, there is a difference between people that are nice, and people that are good.
Of course, it is possible to be good and nice. That does happen. But always remember there are plenty of people that are nice but not good.
What I've been thinking lately is this: When my life comes to an end, I want to be remembered as a good guy instead of just a nice guy. Don't you want the same thing?!
Let's be good men and good women.
Let's live good lives.
Let's leave a good legacy.
And let's remember these words of John Wesley:
"Do all the good you can.
By all the means you can.
In all the ways you can.
In all the places you can.
At all the times you can.
To all the people you can.
As long as you ever can."