The Meaning Of Memorial Day

Today is Memorial Day.  Often times, this day is treated simply as part of a fun, three day weekend where people gather, grill out, and have fun.  Goodness, I'm all for those things, but it is vital for us to pause and remember what this day really is about.

The Department of Veterans Affairs describes Memorial Day this way:

"Memorial Day is a day for remembering

and honoring military personnel who died

in the service of their country, particularly

those who died in battle or as a result of wounds

sustained in battle."

So on this day, we pause and remember those military men and women who died in (or because of) battle.  They made the ultimate sacrifice.  And they gave all they had to give.

I decided to do a little bit of research on how many Americans have died over the years while serving their country in battle.  What I learned really opened my eyes to how many people have perished over the years while on duty.  Just consider how many lives were lost in the following wars...

World War I - 53,402

World War II - 291,557

Korean War - 36,574

Vietnam War - 58,220

Persian Gulf War - 383

Iraq War - 4,412

War In Afghanistan - 2,351



Then I read some accounts of what it is like to lose someone you love in military service.  Alva James-Johnson wrote about Kim Benford Weaver, a nurse, who lost her husband, Staff Sgt. Jason A. Benford.  He died in 2005 while he was on his second deployment to Iraq.  "There's not a day that goes by that you don't think about him," said Kim.  She was just one of many, many people grieving the death of military personnel.

Many Americans today will decorate the graves of these heroes with flags and/or flowers.  It's a way to say "Thank you", and "I remember you."  And this will take place all over the country.

If you're like me, you haven't lost a relative or close friend in military service.  I personally have not travelled that road or felt that pain.  But I can tell the grief weighs heavily on the hearts of those who have endured that experience.

There's nothing wrong with having some fun today.  We all would probably benefit from that.  But in the midst of a day off, may we all pause and acknowledge the true meaning of Memorial Day.  It's about remembering those who have died while serving their country and defending freedom.

In closing, here is a prayer I've written for this day.  Feel free to join in and pray this too, if you'd like.  It's how I choose to remember what this day is really about:

"Almighty God, today is Memorial Day.

It's that special time where we remember

those who lost their lives in, or because of,

military conflict.  On this day, I lift up

in prayer to You those grieving families

who have lost a loved one in battle. 

I ask that You graciously and lovingly

pour out your comfort on those hurting families.

Please soothe their aching hearts and help them

through their season of grief.  On this Memorial

Day, I remember those who died, and their families. 

And I know that You do too.  Thank You for

being the God who cares about hurting people.  

I pray this in the name of Your Son, Jesus Christ.

Amen."